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Merry Christmas!!!

Footprints In The Sand

Gratitude

Suddenly I'm the president of people with crappy lives?!?!!?? Recently, people around me seems to have issues over relationship problems. I mean couples quarrel & fight over... some of which is what i wouldn't call an issue. People gets hurt over nothing..over a "non-issue" issue?? Sometimes you may think that you just want to put across something to the other party but you just don't know how... The truth is painful. Deep down nobody wants to hear it, especially when it hits close to home. Sometimes we tell the truth because the truth is all we have to give. Sometimes we tell the truth because we need to say it out loud to really hear it for ourselves. And sometimes we tell the truth because we just can't help ourselves. And sometimes we tell them because we owe them at least that much.

Maybe we're not supposed to be happy. Maybe gratitude has nothing to do with joy. Maybe being grateful means recognizing what you have for what it is. Appreciating small victories. Admiring the struggle it takes simply to be human. Maybe we're thankful for the familiar things we know. And maybe we're thankful for the things we'll never know. At the end of the day, the fact that we have the courage to still be standing is reason enough to celebrate.

At the end of the day, when it comes down to it, all we really want is to be close to somebody. So this thing where we all keep our distance and pretend not to care about each other, it's usually a load of bullshit. So we pick and choose who we want to remain close to, and once we've chosen those people, we tend to stick close by. No matter how much we hurt them.

Time Is Running....

A couple of hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin shared with the world the secret of his success. Never leave that till tomorrow, he said, which you can do today. This is the man who discovered electricity. You think more people would listen to what he had to say. I don't know why we put things off, but if I had to guess, I'd have to say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, sometimes the fear is just of making a decision, because what if you're wrong? What if you're making a mistake you can't undo? The early bird catches the worm. A stitch in time saves nine. He who hesitates is lost. We can't pretend we hadn't been told. We've all heard the proverbs, heard the philosophers, heard our grandparents warning us about wasted time, heard the damn poets urging us to seize the day. Still sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore. Until we finally understand for ourselves what Benjamin Franklin really meant. That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping, and even the biggest failure, even the worst, beat the hell out of never trying.

So.... What's your decision now?? Come what may, run & challenge your fear..or standstill??

Forgive & Forgets...

Forgive and forget. That's what they say. It's good advice, but it's not very practical. When someone hurts us, we want to hurt them back. When someone wrongs us, we want to be right. Without forgiveness, old scores are never settled...old wounds never heal. And the most we can hope for, is that one day we'll be lucky enough to forget.

In life only one thing is certain, no matter how hard you try, no matter how good your intentions, you are going to make mistakes, you’re going to hurt people, you’re going to get hurt and if you ever want to recover, there’s really only one thing you can say… I forgive you.

I mean, it's really hard to really forgive someone who hurts you before... What's more about forgetting...

What A Week...

A traumatize week for me...

1st trauma of the week:
Was @ Borders on Wed evening.. somehow it's pretty packed dat nitez.. & i was there to destress & looking for books too.. Was happily looking @ some books & i felt this guy was standing close behind me (he was so close dat i could feel him breathing down @ me).. for a moment, i tot all he wanted is to look @ the books dat's in front of me.. so being nice, i moved away.. I proceed on walking & looking for books in other sections.. somehow, when i turn ard, i den realised dat the same guy was following me.. I quickly walk into some historical section... & this guy just stood outside & never followed me in.. but somehow, he's stupid enough to hide behind a pillar. I den confirmed dat i've been stalked!!! He kept peeping to see what or where i've gone to.. Finally, when i realised dat he's not looking, i sneak away to another section..thinking dat i've finally lost him... Just as i was happily reading my books @ another section, he appeared somewhere behind me... & this time he really pissted me off... Just before i could walk away, he came up to me & stammering.."eh...sry..eh eh to..disturb u...arh..can can can i get get to knw u..??" I simply gave him a hard stare & told him a BIG firm NO!!! & i walked away... After some time, i found a nice little corner to sit down & read.. when i look up, i saw dat same guy..walking & looking ard..as if he was hunting for another prey...OMG!!! Y is there such ppl in this world, picking up gals in bookstore?!?!! Go pick up gals in some clubs or pubs la..haiz... Thinking of going to Borders simply makes me feel eerie..

2nd trauma of the week:
1st thing on a nice Fri morning, i logged into FB.. saw a msg for me on 1 of the application..thinking who was checking me out while opening it... I got a shock out of my life!! 1st thing i open d mail... there's this guy posting pics of himself..FULL MONTY!!! (with no pics of his face) The most disgusting thing is dat..there's 1 pic of his dick fully erected!!! OMG?!??!!!! Y is there such ppl on earth AGAIN?!?!!!!!

Thanks to the stalker & dick poser who make my week!!! haiz...

"Some days the whole world seems upside down...and then some how, improbably and when you least expect it, the world rights itself again. Don't wonder why people go crazy, wonder why they don't. In the face of all we can lose in a day, in an instant, wonder what the hell it is that makes us hold it together."

Anger

In life we are taught that there are seven deadly sins. We all know the big ones... gluttony, pride, lust. But the thing you don't hear much about is anger. Maybe it's because we think anger is not that dangerous, that you can control it. My point is, maybe we don't give anger enough credit. Maybe it can be a lot more dangerous than we think. After all when it comes to destructive behavior, it did make the top seven.

p/s: Remember an uncontrollable anger leads to danger... Anger is just 1 letter away from Danger..

1 Last Fight...

If there's just one piece of advice i can give you, it's this - when there's something you really want, fight for it, don't give up no matter how hopeless it seems. And when you've lost hope, ask yourself if 10 years from now, you're gonna wish you gave it just one more shot. because the best things in life, they don't come free.

Change...

Change; we don’t like it, we fear it, but we can't stop it from coming. We either adapt to change or we get left behind. And it hurts to grow, anybody who tells you it doesn’t is lying. But here's the truth...the more things change, the more they stay the same. And sometimes, oh, sometimes change is good. Oh, sometimes, change is...everything.